Why “Just Be Yourself” Is Terrible Advice For You Please note that this post contains affiliate links. I only recommend products and services that can add value to you at no extra cost. The “just be yourself” advice myth is one of the most dangerous and comforting lies people tell each other whenever they’re dealing … Read more
Every man has been a Beta Orbiter for some woman out there, whether he likes to admit it or not. Maybe it was when we were in high school trying to be with the cutest blonde girl in class. But it didn’t work out for us even though we tried our best. And by trying … Read more
“Brendan, I want to talk to you about something. Can you come here for a minute?” asks Julia sheepishly. “What is it dear?” Brendan responds with a look of concern on his face. “I’ve been thinking a lot about us lately, and I… I don’t think this is working out.” “Wha-what? Why would you say … Read more
Do you think you can’t live without this one specific person in your life? Well, I’ve got news for you: you’ve got Oneitis. Do you keep intensely thinking about that one person who got away or rejected you months and years later after they left? Most probably, you’ve got Oneitis. Do you feel like that … Read more
Let’s pretend you are a beautiful woman. This is indeed a strange way to start the conversation, but to fully understand what shit tests really are, we’re going to dive into that “complex” female psyche by pretending you’re an absolutely gorgeous 24-year-old young woman. So whenever you, being the 10 that you are, decide to … Read more
There are so many behaviors that can put you in the friend zone when you’re interacting with women. Some of these behaviors have been popularized by our unrealistic romantic outlook on relationships and others have been encouraged by modern society with the intention of ironing out the differences between both genders. Usually, the biggest problem … Read more
The first few questions that came to my mind when I had my first ever breakup were: “How am I even going to get over this?” “Will I ever become a happy person again?” “Forget about being happier, can I at least become stronger than who I’ve become now?” I was completely lost, frustrated, and … Read more
It’s funny how we’ve been technically dating women for millions of years yet still don’t understand how they express themselves and their interest in relationships. What we seem to struggle with is realizing the differences in the way men and women see and approach intergender dynamics. Today we’re sometimes told that we act and think … Read more
So you’ve been dating this man for a while now, and things have been going really great. So great that you envision a happy future with him. But you’ve noticed that he hasn’t discussed any future plans with you. And you’ve assumed that it’s fine, for now. You’re at the beginning of a relationship anyway, … Read more
Why Self-help Doesn’t Work For You The self-help industry is estimated to be worth 11 billion dollars in the United States. Just in the United States alone, there is eleven billion dollars worth of seminars, books, and courses telling people how to improve their living situations and how they can become better versions of … Read more