What Is Oneitis & How Do You Cure It?

oneitis

Do you think you can’t live without this one specific person in your life? Well, I’ve got news for you: you’ve got Oneitis. Do you keep intensely thinking about that one person who got away or rejected you months and years later after they left? Most probably, you’ve got Oneitis. Do you feel like that … Read more

What Is a Shit Test & How Do You Deal with One?

shit test

Let’s pretend you are a beautiful woman. This is indeed a strange way to start the conversation, but to fully understand what shit tests really are, we’re going to dive into that “complex” female psyche by pretending you’re an absolutely gorgeous 24-year-old young woman. So whenever you, being the 10 that you are, decide to … Read more

9 Behaviors That Put You in the Friend Zone

There are so many behaviors that can put you in the friend zone when you’re interacting with women.  Some of these behaviors have been popularized by our unrealistic romantic outlook on relationships and others have been encouraged by modern society with the intention of ironing out the differences between both genders. Usually, the biggest problem … Read more

How to Get Over Someone You Love

get over someone you love

The first few questions that came to my mind when I had my first ever breakup were: “How am I even going to get over this?” “Will I ever become a happy person again?” “Forget about being happier, can I at least become stronger than who I’ve become now?” I was completely lost, frustrated, and … Read more

7 Subtle Signs She’s Interested In You

signs she's interested in you

It’s funny how we’ve been technically dating women for millions of years yet still don’t understand how they express themselves and their interest in relationships. What we seem to struggle with is realizing the differences in the way men and women see and approach intergender dynamics. Today we’re sometimes told that we act and think … Read more

9 Definite Signs You’re Being Strung Along by a Guy

being strung along

So you’ve been dating this man for a while now, and things have been going really great. So great that you envision a happy future with him. But you’ve noticed that he hasn’t discussed any future plans with you. And you’ve assumed that it’s fine, for now. You’re at the beginning of a relationship anyway, … Read more

The Rational Male — Book Review

The Rational Male

“So entrapped are we in our self-expectation and self-imposed limitations that we fail to see that we have always had the keys to our own prisons – we’re just scared shitless to use them.” ― Rollo Tomassi, The Rational Male Please note that this post, The Rational Male Book Review, contains affiliate links. As an Amazon Associate, I … Read more

How Unconditional Love Ruins Relationships

unconditional love in relationships

At best, unconditional love is a blank cheque for bores; at worst, it gives those who are inclined to behave abusively an absolute open season. — Julie Burchill Unconditional love means loving wholeheartedly, and loving wholeheartedly is loving with no limitations and judgment — to cherish with complete acceptance. This form of love encourages having complete trust … Read more

Why Nice Guys Finish Last & White Knights Don’t Last

Nice guys finish last

“If I keep trying… if I keep being there for her whenever she needs someone… if I keep showing her that I’m better than all those guys she keeps complaining about, she will eventually choose me for who I am.” Said every nice guy ever, right before they finished last. Not only is this mindset … Read more